Getting started with erotic accessories
Getting started with erotic accessories
When the time comes to integrate erotic accessories into our sex life, we can feel lost as there are so many choices, models, sizes and things to stimulate.
Whether you are a man, a woman, non-gendered or in transition there will certainly be an accessory that will meet your needs, but first of all ask yourself the right questions to know exactly what you are looking for.
Why I want to add erotic accessories to my sex life?
It is normal to feel the need to spice up your sex life and to want to vary the stimulation. This urge is natural and can allow you to flourish in a different way, in addition to discovering your body in a different way and adding spice to your love life.
Can we become addicted to erotic accessories?
It is a myth that you can get addicted to your sex toys. But be aware that you can get used to the stimulation that these provide, ideally I suggest you vary your masturbation routine using different techniques and different types of accessories.
Will these replace my partner?
No!!!! Although your erotic accessories are incredibly effective, they have only one goal: to give pleasure. So, nothing takes the place of your partner, their warmth and the sexual tension between you, but they are a pleasant addition to spice up your sex life together.
How do I talk about it with my partner?
Before starting the adventure of erotic accessories as a couple, I suggest that you discuss it with your partner. Explain your motivations to him or her and discuss your perceptions on the subject together.
You can also take the time together to shop for accessories that you would be comfortable adding as a duo. Also, you may need to reassure your partner about your motives by letting them know it's out of curiosity and that the two of you can add a little something.
What to start with?
The choices are endless, but it's important that you know what you want to stimulate and what your expectations are.
In terms of erotic accessories, you will have more natural materials reminiscent of the natural genital anatomy of the vagina or penis. You will also find vibrating, suction and non-vibrating accessories. Each erogenous zone will have a specific type of accessory specifically designed to achieve optimal stimulation according to your needs.
Before even shopping, I suggest you answer the following questions:
- What do I want to stimulate for an erogenous zone? The penis, clitoris, vagina, G-spot, prostate, anus, breasts, etc.
- Do I want an accessory with or without vibration?
- How much would I like to pay?
- What are my expectations in terms of fun, games or sensations?
- What am I looking for as a result?
- Do I want to use it solo or as a duo?
The price?
When it comes to erotic accessories, the price can vary enormously. There will be something for all tastes and all budgets. I suggest you before embarking on the adventure to analyze the budget you want to allocate to your purchases.
You can start by buying accessories at a lower cost to try out or opt directly for a range that is a little more expensive, but of better quality.
Personally, I very much like to suggest going for better quality without costing a fortune such as Satisfyer or Adore U which offers great value for money and may give you better satisfaction. I will add that its two brands are excellent whether you are new to erotic accessories or not.
To help you further in your research I present to you a little guide 101 to basic erotic accessories.Suction accessories:
They are very popular with women or anyone with a clitoris. The suction sensitizes the clitoris and the air rotation / air pulsation stimulates the clitoris deeply for very powerful orgasms. You can also find them in a rabbit vibrator version for external and internal stimulation or in suction and vibration versions for external stimulation.
The dildo:
The dildo is designed for penetration and it is made from different materials such as Pyrex, Silicone and TPE. These are reminiscent of the shape of the penis in general, although it is also found in all kinds of shapes. The advantage of the dildo is that it can be used perfectly for pleasure alone, with one or a partner and for certain models with a harness.
The prostate stimulator:
The prostate stimulator is designed for anal stimulation, but it is slightly curved to stimulate the prostate, which is a highly erogenous sex gland in the anus in men. You can find it in a vibrating or non-vibrating version.
The anal stimulator is designed to stimulate the anus. The sizes and models will vary, but the important thing is that they are provided with a "stopper" to prevent them from entering completely into the anus, hence the importance of using a specially designed toy. for anal stimulation when you want to stimulate the anus.
The masturbator:
The masturbator:
The masturbator is designed to masturbate the penis. It will add sensations somewhat reminiscent of penetration. The interior is ribbed and the material is flexible. Depending on the model, you can find them with or without vibrations and in different sizes.
The harness:
The harness is a belt fitted with a dildo and is worn by a man or a woman for the purpose of practicing penetration.
Erection ring:
The erection ring is designed to put pressure on the base of the penis and maintain the erection. Some models will be equipped with a vibrator which will also stimulate the partner during penetration.
In conclusion, to get started with erotic accessories, it is important that you analyze your needs and ask yourself the right questions. Take the time to look at the accessories and find out if you feel the need. You can also come to the store to see the models in person and get the support of one of our advisors who can offer you suggestions based on what you're looking for.
With that, I hope this blog has enlightened you and that you will find exactly the model (s) that will please you.
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